gasman58 (gasman58) wrote in not_getting_any,

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I think i fit right in with this group. After reading most of the entries, i recognize i'm not the only fool in town.See, i've been married for 5 years and it's progressively getting worse.We're down to maybe once every month, at least 45 days apart from my count, and yes i've been keeping track for about three years now.In her defense, she's been on meds now since just after we married, for manic depressives, bipolar, and some other issues i can't even spell. I love her tremendously,but the intimate side of her is gone.I've put out a number of clues as to what i'm looking for but so far no luck. Discretion is really important. All i really would like is to have someone in the same boat as i'm in and not want any commitments. I had a Vasectomy a long time ago, so pregnancy is not an issue.I know there are alot of people that think i'm really rude and wrong for this but i've tried every solution you could think of, short of a divorce. But i'm really happy with her in every single(DOMESTIC)way. I guess i'm just afraid to see things change. 1 hour ago
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You're not alone.
I've been in a long term relationship (12 years), our sexlife has dwindled to less than once a month... but our situation is reversed - he's the one with the medical issues (very bad back & abdominal hernia - and last month put on Dr orders no sex till after surgery!)
We are very happy with each other in all the other domestic ways... but I'm really beginning to miss the physical aspect.
I can understand your situation completely, and wish you the best at whatever you can deal with !
Intimacy in a relationship is very important. That is why there are so many free online dating sites. People get lonely and need to connect.
But i'm not SINGLE so these sites are not an option open to me, and most other sites ask you to join,and pay, to be inside the club and wich the other half can learn of quickly. so discretion is nonexistent.
you are still better off on a site like They can be discreet if you don't put your photo.