Hey, I'm new to this community. I'm sexually frustrated! I've been in a relationship for 3 months now. I lost my virginity with this person. I love the closeness and the heavy breathing bodies rubbing against each other... all of it. And I guess its even more complicated because it's my first time being with a girl. I don't exactly know what I'm doing and the fact that we don't do it anymore makes me wonder if its me. Did I do something wrong? AM I not doing enough of something? I can't help but blame myself. She says that she doesnt have a sex drive anymore .. so okay. Because I like her a lot I'm trying to adjust to it. But then today she says that she's been pretty much doing herself. So its me right? What should i do?